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http://www.deathquaker.org/gaming/meritsflaws.html (http://www.deathquaker.org/gaming/meritsflaws.html)
http://www.dandwiki.com/wiki/3.5e_Flaws (http://www.dandwiki.com/wiki/3.5e_Flaws)
http://azuriet.wikidot.com/character-trait (http://azuriet.wikidot.com/character-trait)